Taking Responsibility

I think that the responsible thing to do, when you've decided to retract your affections when the other party has not, is to make the other person hate you. It is only fair. This thing where you continue to be nice to the other person because "hey, I'm a nice person, people like me" is overplayed. The kinder, more appropriate response in the long run is to be an asshole. Make fun of them, tell lies, talk loud and to everyone about how silly the other person is. And by all means, if you ever say "you are the perfect _________ (insert your preferred gender here)" in a tone of voice that indicates there may or may not be a "but...." following? I think that gives off the loathsome odor of a distinct will to be mildy maimed in a not so tragic accident. It is a lot easier to get over someone stupid and mean than someone who just keeps fucking around.