You don't seem to understand. There is a huge difference between my keeping something private because it's private and me keeping something private because I'm hiding it from you. I'm not like you. I'm not an open book. It's not because I am ashamed, it's not because there's something wrong with me. And you don't get to try and make me feel like there is something wrong with me because of it. It's just how I am. Get over it.